I was given this card when my Mum, (Auntie Nellie) died. I thought you might get some comfort from it.
What is Dying? A ship sails and I stand watching till she fades on the horizon and someone at my side says, "She is gone". Gone where? Gone from my sight, that is all; she is just as large as when I saw her. The diminished size and total loss of sight is in me, not in her, and just at that moment when someone at my side says, "She is gone", there are others who are watching her coming and other voices take up a glad shout, "There she comes!". And that is dying.
So very sorry for your loss. Your memories will always be with you and your family.
Your light will never be extinguished, Janette saw a new star in the sky last night and said it was you, of that I have no doubt.